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09.20.2004 at 12:45 p.m.

Little History: My older brother and I are not that close. He is also Obese to the point of being VERY unhealthy.

I have always tried to be supportive of him and he gets nasty.

Now, our Father is dying, he's on a respirator...I went to him to try and talk to him and he turned the conversation around.

See below........Any advice would help....

Andrew says:

ok, well, i have a standby plane ticket to Ny

Andrew says:

maybe you can pick me up at the airport?

Andrew's Brother says:

just curious as to why

Andrew says:

well...to see Dad

Andrew's Brother says:

andrew

Andrew's Brother says:

dads probably not gonna come out of that you know that right?

Andrew says:

yes

Andrew's Brother says:

im sorry if you are upset

Andrew says:

so, id like to "see" him

Andrew's Brother says:

its very sad of course

Andrew's Brother says:

why?

Andrew's Brother says:

to remember him this way?

Andrew says:

maybe to kiss him goodbye

Andrew's Brother says:

andrew cmon

Andrew says:

either way, i have to come

Andrew says:

to help Mom etc

Andrew's Brother says:

*sigh*

Andrew's Brother says:

i can pick you up yeah if i have the van

Andrew's Brother says:

we have a house guest... i dont know if you know that

Andrew says:

ok

Andrew's Brother says:

you can stay here with us after if you want

Andrew says:

ill probably stay at moms

Andrew's Brother says:

he will be here till thursday i think

Andrew says:

not leave her alone

Andrew's Brother says:

good i hope so

Andrew's Brother says:

well yeah but... you know shes funny

Andrew's Brother says:

i cancelled a wedding for the weekend

Andrew's Brother says:

we were supposed to go to VT for elizabeths cuz' wedding

Andrew's Brother says:

so that i can be here for mom

Andrew's Brother says:

im upset but... you know dad gave up basically on life when he wasnt sick

Andrew's Brother says:

then he got sick, as i knew he would probably, hate to say that

Andrew's Brother says:

but its true

Andrew's Brother says:

when the spirit doesnt want to live anymore.. the body will soon follow.

Andrew says:

he did however, seem hell bent on beating it

Andrew's Brother says:

no

Andrew says:

from my daily talks with him'

Andrew's Brother says:

that was AFTER the fact

Andrew's Brother says:

the damage was done..

Andrew's Brother says:

and if anything can be learned by the whole thing is is this:

Andrew's Brother says:

do what you love in life

Andrew's Brother says:

he didnt... hence why he was so depressed.

Andrew's Brother says:

he felt he failed... of course we dont see it that way but ...

Andrew's Brother says:

its up to how a person sees life in his/her own eyes.

Andrew says:

g-ma died this day 21 years ago

Andrew's Brother says:

so?

Andrew's Brother says:

im not superstitious andrew

Andrew says:

just an FYI

Andrew's Brother says:

ok but did you hear me?

Andrew says:

yes

Andrew's Brother says:

good

Andrew's Brother says:

now, apply it if you can

Andrew's Brother says:

everyone seems always worried about me

Andrew's Brother says:

yet.....

Andrew's Brother says:

i am rarely depressed

Andrew's Brother says:

always happy enjoying life 100%

Andrew says:

however

Andrew says:

what if:

Andrew says:

you all of a sudden have a major health issue that makes you bedridden? would you still be 100% enjoying life?

Andrew's Brother says:

of course i would try my best, there are no contracts, guarantees in life andrew

Andrew says:

preventetive measures perhaps

Andrew's Brother says:

but the bottom line is

Andrew's Brother says:

oh shut up

Andrew's Brother says:

the bottom line:

Andrew says:

?

Andrew's Brother says:

you gotta be mentally right first and foremost

Andrew says:

of course

Andrew's Brother says:

the body is last to follow actually

Andrew's Brother says:

i dont believe i would be sick..

Andrew's Brother says:

if i were totally fixed mentally and spiritually

Andrew says:

i just hypothetically reversed it and ask u?

Andrew's Brother says:

i worked hard at repairing my mentality

Andrew's Brother says:

over the past.... 2 yrs

Andrew says:

i know

Andrew says:

and im happy

Andrew's Brother says:

now slowly i am actually getting back in shape, etc physically

Andrew says:

ok, as long as you are aware of the harmony

Andrew's Brother says:

i feel great

Andrew's Brother says:

yep

Andrew's Brother says:

but now i had a minor setback...

Andrew's Brother says:

which i am addressing

Andrew says:

?

Andrew's Brother says:

well...

Andrew's Brother says:

my cellulitis

Andrew's Brother says:

it is recurring

Andrew's Brother says:

i have to fix it once and for all

Andrew says:

what is the cause of it?

Andrew's Brother says:

infection initially

Andrew's Brother says:

because of my psoriasis.... i get reinfected

Andrew's Brother says:

its all overlapping

Andrew's Brother says:

my weight, psoriasis, slipped disc, and cellulitis

Andrew's Brother says:

but first i had to repair my ulcers , which i did

Andrew's Brother says:

mentally if you know what i mean

Andrew says:

look....and hate me and get mad at me whatever....you have a woman that loves you, and I love you, your kids love u....i want you and elizabeth to maybe have kids...i want you around a long time...i dont want you to have to endure the issues of only sitting in chairs with no arms, and all the other issues that everyone is fraid to address,. sorry. I love YOU...case closed..I pray daily for you

Andrew says:

and Liz

Andrew's Brother says:

you are trite

G-Clef says:

i should pray for you

Andrew says:

i hope u do

Andrew's Brother says:

i dont

Andrew's Brother says:

seriously .. what a fucking short sighted statement typical of your egoiste attitude

Andrew's Brother says:

go to hell

Andrew's Brother says:

bye

Andrew says:

what? that you have an obesity issue and I care and worry?

Andrew's Brother says:

like i didnt mention that?

Andrew says:

u did

Andrew's Brother says:

do you seriously imagine in your simple ass mind that i dont know that?

Andrew says:

thats why i said what if you were bedridden?

Andrew's Brother says:

that ui dont combat it daily?

Andrew's Brother says:

you meant that as a fat thing?

Andrew says:

i WANT to be a support sytem

Andrew's Brother says:

omfg

Andrew's Brother says:

go away LOL

Andrew says:

no

Andrew's Brother says:

you are a loser

Andrew's Brother says:

i dont want you in my life as a result

Andrew says:

i meant..what if you have a heart atack?

Andrew's Brother says:

hahahahaha

Andrew's Brother says:

pray that i DO!

Andrew's Brother says:

because i will be here longer than you will bro

Andrew says:

i hope u are

Andrew's Brother says:

is it me...

Andrew's Brother says:

or doesnt it seem that the people who are most apt to crtique me in my life....

Andrew's Brother says:

are those with the glasshouse syndrome?

Andrew's Brother says:

listen carefully to me

Andrew says:

maybe people are afraid to say the truth

Andrew's Brother says:

LOL

Andrew's Brother says:

maybe you are

Andrew says:

how much do u weigh? what is your blood pressure.cholesterol?

Andrew's Brother says:

if you knew your brother AT ALL.... you would know i speak about it to everyone i know

Andrew's Brother says:

i had a complete physical last year and i was fine... heavier than i am now, i dont recall the nymbers but i got a clean bill of health

Andrew's Brother says:

who are you DAD?

Andrew's Brother says:

you are such a negative asshole andrew

Andrew's Brother says:

this is why you are not close to me

Andrew says:

just cause i care?

Andrew's Brother says:

you dont

Andrew's Brother says:

you know who cares about me?

Andrew's Brother says:

those who celebrate my positivity as well as help me with the hard times

Andrew's Brother says:

you are what is called a negative person to me

Andrew says:

well, hopw would i know your hard times if you dont reach out?

Andrew's Brother says:

you are a usurper

Andrew says:

and always seeem so defensive

Andrew's Brother says:

reach out?

Andrew's Brother says:

LOL

Andrew's Brother says:

do i?

Andrew's Brother says:

you are a fucking asshole!

Andrew's Brother says:

wake up

Andrew's Brother says:

LMAO

Andrew's Brother says:

who likes you?

Andrew says:

tell, me the reality then?

Andrew's Brother says:

the reality is

Andrew's Brother says:

i am fine

Andrew's Brother says:

great

Andrew's Brother says:

in fact i told you all this

Andrew's Brother says:

you chose not to belieev me

Andrew's Brother says:

so what can ido?

Andrew's Brother says:

thats up to you to believe what you want

Andrew's Brother says:

so go live your fake life

Andrew says:

dio u plan to have more kids?

Andrew's Brother says:

why?

Andrew's Brother says:

what sort of loaded question is that?

Andrew's Brother says:

do you plan to cheat on your wife again?

Andrew's Brother says:

or go broke more?

Andrew's Brother says:

LOL quit throwing stones loser

Andrew's Brother says:

when dad dies

Andrew's Brother says:

we are done

Andrew's Brother says:

dont contact me

Andrew's Brother says:

im serious

nEo

Heard in my house: nEo

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