Comments:

Pandionna - 2004-05-18 10:01:48
Sounds like a compromise is in order. Maybe it's not an either/or proposition? Like, maybe it would help to agree on a time (when she and the kids aren't home, or when the kids are asleep) and leave it at that. I mean, compromise is the art of marriage. Either/or propositions are the best way to foster resentment. Just saying. My husband and I have both learned this in the last few months. Painfully, and not with this particular subject, and I had a lawyer's name in my hand before we figured it out, but we learned it.
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LA - 2004-05-18 22:17:53
Oy. Do I hear you. I'm trying so hard to be my own self and to just blow off Mike's shit. It never stays good for long and I've got to learn how to not let his bullying get me down. In this instance misery doesn't love company and I'm sorry anyone gets hurt by the one who is supposed to love them most. Your situation sucks big weenie. Hope the move helps some. A new venue isn't such a bad thing. Won't fix your marriage, but you're away from the scene of the crime(s). ~LA
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No1sgirl - 2004-05-20 13:01:17
*hug* I know how you feel. I go looking in my husband's email from time to time (because he asks me to or because I'm looking for something he has that I need) and I see all kinds of porn junk that he has signed up for. I saw where he had signed up for a personals site and when I confronted him about it he said that he was looking for people he went to school with...I just bet he is. Anyway, I guess I just wanted to drop by and state the obvious, men are pigs. I agree with what you said about you can only apologize for the same thing for so long before it starts to sound insincere (sp?). Anyway, I just want to say that I'm sorry and that maybe this move will really make things better.
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LJ - 2004-05-21 19:45:46
I have such mixed feelings about your marriage when I read your entries. I truly hope and pray this move is good for ALL parties, but there's a part of me that wants to meet your husband and poke his porn lovin' eyeballs out. Sorry - I recognize its not my right to say that. You are a truly amazing, forgiving, merciful woman - God bless you!!!
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