Comments:

u know - 2004-07-09 15:44:34
Did u mention the issue regarding your money priorities? for example, we have borrowed over 10 grand from family and i need to send out 200.oo to my mother, who has been caring for my father, who's on his death bed...but NO! u Lisa, want the " bed, bath and beyond" massager instead...tell me where the priorities are??????
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Me - 2004-07-09 15:48:55
And of course, Andrew... you take something out of context to try to use in your "defense". I told you to send 100 to your mother, not 200, for reasons other than the massager I want. Oh, wait, the massager will help my back, so maybe I can get a REAL massage that doesnt expect sex in return, no matter how much I am hurting.
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Me, again - 2004-07-09 16:02:47
Plus, I had not even mentioned money in my entry. You are just grabbing at any string you can, because you know on the big issues *I* mentioned I am 100% correct. Plus, I budgeted my massager anyway, and YOU were the one mouting off we could handle both... so handle it all we will.
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Me - 2004-07-09 16:14:49
So does that mean we can Have sex tonite?
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Pink - 2004-07-10 22:16:21
Owch... I'm sure he has his good points, but this entry sure shows much of his bad. Kinda makes me think of my boyfriend (who I am living with - feels like we are married), except that I am the forgetful one, I'll hear him, but I wont remember him saying things sometimes, it really bothers him. So how old are you? And how old is he? How long have you been married?
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m - 2004-07-12 22:00:38
I hate to see your husband treating you like that. Frankly, I want to slap him silly. I feel a connection to your diary because we're both in love with men who are obsessed with sex, but my M would never criticize me for not being the perfect housekeeper or not wanting to have sex. And he would care if I'd had a long day or if my hip hurt. What the heck is wrong with your guy??? Granted, M wouldn't notice the living room at all, but ... really, you deserve to be treated better. It's psychologically abusive to treat someone the way you're describing. It makes me really angry for you.
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Erica - 2004-07-13 00:37:08
I just got out of a relationship. We lived together for six months. We had numerous conversation problems, similar to your complaints. We read that book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. It helped us understand the different ways we were communicating and how to do it better. I'd really sugguest it if you haven't already read it. My relationship didn't end up working out but we did communicate much better after reading that book.
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Elizabeth - 2004-07-13 19:06:27
I just read your entire site. I must say, it gave me a deeper understanding of what I put my husband through when I cheated. I hope you'll work everything out, whichever direction it takes you.
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Liza - 2004-07-13 23:03:40
Ouch. *Sends a hug* You sound like you could use one right about now.
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