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x-plicity - 2004-08-26 10:40:03
If your husband plans on using your own words against you, then maybe you should consider locking your diary. That way you don't have to worry about what he might say or think about your own personal and private thoughts. I can understand you wanting him to know how you are feeling through words, but I think it may be lost on him. *hugs*
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kaire - 2004-08-26 10:52:48
If your goal is to express yourself, get a new journal and keep writing. If your goal is to get him to change I'd give up. You cannot make someone else change. They have to want to. The fact that he finds comments only useful for ammunition against you and personal humor shows that he will not grow as a person from your writing as you may hope.
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thea - 2004-08-26 11:46:16
i come here and read you from time to time, and i am really sorry you are going through such a hard time with your husband. writing here is your release. don't let him chase you away from it. he wants you to stop...needs you to stop...because the more you spill here, the stronger you are when you have to deal with him. i say just lock it, and when he tries to come and read he won't be able to and that will teach him to invade your thoughts. just a suggestion. and i will be saving you on my list this time...so i can read up until the time you choose to lock it. good luck!
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Pandionna - 2004-08-26 11:54:32
Eep, now I feel bad, since I'm the one who brought it up. But you know what? The day I try to strike Dan out of anger is the day I leave him. That's nothing short of domestic violence. Don't let yourself get to that point. Seriously. You'll hate yourself for it, and it will scar your kids for life. Hugs.
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Des - 2004-08-26 12:17:55
Lisa, Babe, I so didn't mean to imply you shouldn't write...I was just saying (and I think you must feel the same as you seem to have said as much in this entry) that your husband is using our words of support, our kindness...as humor. As his amusement. And that's wrong. And I feel like if I say something, things that maybe very much need to be said...maybe it will be me attached next. You know? And I didn't just stumble in and start reading...I have read from the beginning of this journal...so I have a vague idea. I have also read Andrews comments, his entries...HIS words. And that is what I have formed my opinion on him from.
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