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M - 2004-09-27 00:11:26
He needs therapy, or something. You don't call your wife a "psychopath bitch" out of the blue, or ever. That's just not right. It's not your flaw, it's his. And what the heck is he doing on the computer? You DO NOT deserve to be treated this way.
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Des - 2004-09-27 04:48:03
Lisa, the problem is this...it sounds as though you HAVE your husband back...you want that guy he pretends to be every once in awhile back. Then again, I'm just basing this on the shit I read in here. I don't know the whole story. And my husband may have done some bad things, may be wrong about a lot of stuff...but he'd NEVER speak to me that way just the two of us, let alone in front of someone else. It truly seems as though Andrew has no respect for you, or women in general...and if his mother is such a door mat for him, maybe that is where it started. How do you live like that? People want to know how I do...but at least he's nice to me ninety percent of the time...you don't even have that (and god, he is always spending time with our son...and he even does the dishes. All of them. I can't remember the last time I did a load of dishes (and our dishwasher doesn't work))...somethign is wrong with this picture...you may stay home...but the kids are your job...Not taking care of a grown man.
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Des - 2004-09-27 04:49:17
And these are the attitudes I've fought so hard not to express...I'm sorry...I typed this impulsively, but I meant every bit of it.
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YellowRoseTx - 2004-09-27 12:29:15
I think our husbands were brothers in another life!! HA! HA!! I've learned to just leave the room and IGNORE him b/c I refuse to be in his presence when he treats me that way! I'm so incredibly sorry your weekend was ruined. I hope it gets better for you soon! Take Care!
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Maggie - 2004-09-27 16:38:49
I know you've heard all this before, but the situation you're in is not a healthy one. Not for you OR for your children. I spent the last year of my marriage being treated like crap, hit etc and called MANY terrible names. Even though I'm divorced now, it really hasn't changed much only he's in a different state and can't hurt me physically anymore. But the words, sometimes hurt more than any bite, scratch or hair pulling etc.
I've spent the last two days reading your diary from the beginning while here at work and it's obvious that he has no respect for you OR the children. I'm not going to sit here and say 'rip your family apart' or 'leave him'. It's not my place. What I will say however is, when all is said and done, you have to decide that's best for YOU and your two beautiful children, be it marital counseling or whatnot. But something has to change, otherwise in 20 years you're going to be in the same position realizing that NOTHING has changed.
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jane. - 2004-10-15 14:48:22
sweetheart. get out. for you, for your kids. they don't deserve to be raised by someone as damaged and cruel as your husband shows himself to be, and you don't owe him any loyalty when he treats you so badly.
i'm just saying because i wish someone had said it to me.
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